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Free Will to the Rescue

30. August 2006 Kategorie General Spirit, Mind | 0 Kommentare »

I Never Knew I Had A Choice: Explorations in Personal Growth (with InfoTrac)
I Never Knew I Had A Choice: Explorations in Personal Growth (with InfoTrac)

by: Dave Czach

Today’s society and your private world are the results of free will. We have arrived here today through intention, ignorance or abuse. Some people understand and use free will daily. Some people completely deny it. And other people simply mock it and complain it “doesn’t work.”

Free will gives you the power of choice. You always have a choice. You can choose the same behavior or path you usually select. Or you can create a new result. For example, if someone calls you a “loser,” do you have a knee-jerk reaction of anger? If so, your behavior was on auto-pilot allowing a pre-programmed, subconscious trigger to surface. Completely bypassing your consciousness.

Next time, practice conscious thinking and use your free will to choose your interpretation of the event and your subsequent action. Take a second to take a deep breath to help raise your consciousness. Then decide if the “loser” statement is valid or not. If invalid, let it roll off your back. Remembering that most negative opinions are simply people’s expressions of something they don’t like about themselves. If the “loser” statement holds some truth - or is dead-on accurate - control your emotions. Don’t become angry. Allow the trigger to surface. And release the trigger.

The rise of negative triggers is a blessing in disguise. By using your free will and taking a second to raise your consciousness, you can identify a mental or emotional block. By asking the right questions within, you will be able to release the emotions of the trigger and experience growth in your personal and/or spiritual journey.

In the end, the quality of your life depends on daily usage of your free will to raise your consciousness and positively control your life. In doing so, you can shine brightly as intended.

About The Author
Dave Czach is an “experiential” mind-body-spirit researcher since 1991. He is also the publisher of the free and insightful newsletter at http://iWantSelfHelp.com/news.

Energy Health for Women

30. August 2006 Kategorie General Spirit, Body, Spirit | 0 Kommentare »

New Dimensions in Women\'s Health, Third Edition
New Dimensions in Women\’s Health, Third Edition

by Carol Tuttle

Everything at its finest level of creation is energy. We are exchanging energy and silently communicating energetically with every person with whom we come into contact. Energy impressions are always our first impressions that influence what we think or feel about others.

Everyone has an invisible energy system that flows energy on pathways or meridians. These same meridians have multiple pressure points that have been a means of working with the energy to keep it flowing. Acupressure, acupuncture, and reflexology are the more common modalities we have in the Western world.

The Chinese term for energy is “chi” which means life force energy. When our energy is blocked, scrambled or leaking, we feel depleted and heavy. When you are energy-depleted, it is more difficult to manage your emotions, think positive thoughts and stay healthy.

In the field of holistic health, energy medicine and energy psychology are growing rapidly. As a practitioner of energy therapies, I have assisted numerous women who are energy challenged.

I recently assisted a woman who was bedridden due to a severe case of chronic fatigue. After eight weeks of working with her body’s energy system to restore it to good health and teaching her how to take care of her own energy health, she has had a miraculous recovery. She is out of bed and fully active. Her parents see it as a miracle. Our energy responds very quickly when we know what to do to correct it. After all, it’s just energy.

The following are some of the most common energy problems for women and their corrections:

1. Taking on other people’s emotional energy. Our energies are magnetic in nature. A common codependent pattern for women is< to play the role of a "pleaser." The primary dysfunction of this role is to always put others' needs before your own. Women that are pleasers tend to be very psychic in nature. This helps them know what others need without even having to ask. A common aspect of this role is to take on the negative emotion other people are feeling or processing.

Emotion is energy in motion. We can attract that energy to us when we are not safeguarded from it. It is possible to take on the energy of people you do not even know! It can even happen at the grocery store. All you want to do is go in and buy a gallon of milk, and you leave not only with the milk but also with the sadness and loneliness of ten other women in the store!

Children process a lot of negative energy for their parents. If you are stressed, your children intuitively are aware of that and can play the role of trying to "please" or "act-out" in response to the negative energy you are running.

In the early days of my studies of energy medicine, my daughter would come home from junior high school nearly every day with a headache. As I came to understand this dynamic of taking on other people's energies, I realized she was doing that sub-consciously at school. I helped her correct it, and the headaches eventually subsided.

Correction: Your central meridian is one of your primary energy pathways that runs from your pubic bone up to your bottom lip. It is like a radio receiver that channels other people's negative thoughts and emotions into you. Pretend you have a zipper running up your torso between these two points. "Zip up" your central meridian starting at your pubic bone and continuing until you reach your bottom lip. "Zipping up" your central meridian will "zip-up" your energy. You will feel more confident and positive about yourself and your world, think more clearly, and be able to protect yourself from the negative energies around you. "Zip up" your children before they go to school.

2. Leaking energy. We have another invisible energy system called chakras. Whereas meridians are an energy transportation system, chakras are energy stations. The word chakra means disk, vortex, or wheel. There are seven energy stations positioned from the base of your spine to the top of your head. In energy health, if you are losing or leaking energy at the base chakra located at the bottom of your spine, you may feel depression, anxiety and exhaustion.

Many women are energy depleted because they are not able to hold enough life force energy or chi. In this energy condition, you are flushing energy down and away from you, much like a toilet flushes water down. In order to maintain good energy health, you want energy spiraling up into your base chakra.

Correction: When there is a leak, you have to patch it. Close your eyes and imagine you can see the energy leaking out of your tailbone. Imagine a patch large enough to cover the leak. Place the patch over the leak. Imagine you can go beneath the energy and reverse the flow to spiral it up into your body through your tailbone.

3. Homolateral energy flow. The left hemisphere of the brain sends information to the right side of your body, and the right hemisphere sends information to the left side. This crossing of energy helps you feel more balanced, think more clearly, and improves your coordination. When your energies are not crossing, they are running a homolateral pattern-straight up and down the body. In this state you cannot access or utilize your brain's full capacity or your body's full intelligence.

Babies naturally have a homolateral flow. It is the function of crawling that initiates the energies flowing in a crossover pattern. Everyone that I have assisted with CFS and Epstein Barr has a homolateral energy flow. People who actively participate in a regular exercise program usually have healthy crossover patterns.

Correction: To cross your energies and keep them flowing in a healthy crossover flow, march in place lifting the opposite leg and arm simultaneously for about 20 steps. Or just get on the ground and start crawling! Encourage your baby to crawl and delay walking until they are 12 months old. Early walking interferes with their energy establishing a healthy crossover flow.

My oldest daughter walked at nine months as a result of eager parents! She was challenged all the way up through high school in math, reading and spelling. In grade school, she was tutored on a regular basis. When she was 16, I was introduced to this process. I showed her the correction, and she faithfully marched daily. By the end of her senior year in high school, she was awarded a scholarship to a local university and has been on the Dean's list ever since.

There is much to be learned about energy health and taking care of our own energies. Good resources are Carol Tuttle's book, Remembering Wholeness: A Personal Handbook for Thriving in the 21st Century, and Donna Eden's book, Energy Medicine, about how to boost your body's energy.

Carol Tuttle, author of Remembering Wholeness: A Personal Handbook for Thriving in the 21st Century, is a gifted energy health practitioner. She is board-certified as a master level rapid-eye therapist, a form of energy psychology. She has assisted hundreds of clients restore their physical, emotional, mental and spiritual health. For more information on her work and writings go to http://www.caroltuttle.com

The Continuing Experience of Enchantment: Get Ready for Practice, Practice, Practice! – Pt 2 of 2

30. August 2006 Kategorie General Spirit, Mind, Body, Spirit | 0 Kommentare »

by Barbara Becker Holstein

Thank you for staying with me. Let us continue to explore our basic needs and find ways to bring a sense of wholeness and enchantment into our lives. We will end with an exercise for you to practice.

Enchantment involves more than merely meeting one’s basic needs, it also involves valuing one’s basic needs. Yet it cannot be activated and maintained without certain negotiating skills. It also involves valuing one’s own Positive Fingerprints and Shadow Prints of the mind. Positive Fingerprints are actual memories were we have intentionally gone by and gleaned positive feelings and/or knowledge. Shadow Prints are more vague, but also contain within them are positive feelings and impressions from the past.

Without these unique memories and impressions that create a pathway to building a positive self-narrative, these positive building blocks of our uniqueness are lost to others and, more sadly, to ourselves.

We need our Positive Fingerprints and Shadow Prints of the mind so that our present and future will be able to reflect our talents, interests and potential. For if I deny the beauty and specialness of my own uniqueness, I am again locked out of the real experience of enchantment.

Personal enchantment is not a group activity. It remains a private exercise … leading to a sense of integrity and wholeness. Only the person herself knows if she is in a state of enchantment or disenchantment. Here is an activity to get you started, geared to emphasizing positive self-regard.

Exercise: A Play Date with Your Own Enchantment!

1. Please write down five positive comments about yourself. For example, “You are a most courteous and helpful person.” “You are always there for me.” “I can always trust you.” You can make these statements in the first person or the third person, whichever is one comfortable for you. For example, you could state, “I’m a courageous person who tries to help others out, even at great cost to myself.” Or you could say, “You are a most courageous person who is willing to help others out, even at great cost to yourself.”

After you have made your list of five positive remarks you’d like to hear about yourself, put this piece of paper in your wallet or pocketbook. Read it to yourself at least once a day for one week. You may think of other positive statements you’d like to add, or you may get tired of certain ones and delete them. That’s fine. Just keep the number around five.

2. After a week, answer the following questions:

(a) How did you feel reading these remarks?
(b) Were there remarks you wished you could have made but honestly felt you didn’t deserve? If so, what do you think are some of the things you might need to work on before you can legitimately make a particular statement? Jot down some of those things. Try to be objective. Is your list realistic? Too perfectionistic? If it is perfectionistic, try to make it more realistic.

Remember that incorporating positive self-regard requires practice and repetition just as incorporating negative self-statements required repetition. If you find this exercise uncomfortable at this time, return to it later.

*This article–with minor changes throughout–came from my book, THE ENCHANTED SELF, A Positive Therapy. The body of the article can be found on pages 184-l85 and the exercise on page 104.

Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein is the originator of The Enchanted Self. She has been a positive psychologist in private practice and licensed in the states of New Jersey and Massachusetts since 1981. Her book, The Enchanted Self, A Positive Therapy, was published in 1997 by Harwood Academic Publishers and is now in its second printing. She has just published her second book on the concept of enchantment: Recipes for Enchantment, The Secret Ingredient is YOU!

Dr. Holstein speaks regularly on radio programs around the country, and appears on television in New York and New Jersey. Her inspiring audio files can be found on the web at http://www.Ladybuglive.com. She also gives lectures, seminars, and retreats on the concepts of enchantment and is currently in private practice in Long Branch, New Jersey with her husband, Dr. Russell M. Holstein. You may find more about Dr. Holstein and her work at: http://www.enchantedself.com

The Continuing Experience of Enchantment - Get Ready for Practice, Practice, Practice! – Part One

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The Enchantment of Modern Life: Attachments, Crossings, and Ethics.
The Enchantment of Modern Life: Attachments, Crossings, and Ethics

by Barbara Becker Holstein

Thank you for joining me for this two-part article. In this segment we will learn how practicing positive self regard enhances our every day lives.

Time continues to increase my conviction that the old adage “Practice, practice, practice” is as necessary to experiencing a state of enchantment as anything else. Unfortunately, I am convinced, in general, we work much harder than we realize to stay in state of disenchantment rather than to let ourselves enjoy moments of enchantment.

We seem to practice staying in bad mood and seeing our faults and weaknesses rather than our strengths. Do we really feel that worry will help a situation, rather than patiently figuring out appropriate, more positive action? The ultimate solution is often simple, though the road to a permanent state of well-being requires practice and continual awareness and work.

The truth is: most of us get in the way of our good mental health. We may experience a lonely or sad emptiness inside, suffer a sense of disconnection from ourselves, or have repetitive occurrences of bad moods or self-generating negative messages.

We constantly interrupt our potential for achieving positive states by permitting fears or the counting of our woes to take away potentially precious moments. Many of us lack a sense of comfort about being with ourselves in our own mental space, and within our own body. We forget how to recognize and emphasize our blessings.

My clients remind me every day of how we can get in our own way. I remind myself too, as I strive to maintain the wonderful sense of oneness with myself and the world that I call THE ENCHANTED SELF.

This “oneness,” if examined, is a reflection of and a daring to use in new ways suitable for the present moment, our own unique talents, interests, potentials and individual life experiences.

More and more I realize that maintaining enchantment is not a trivial activity. It involves more than positive self-regard, yet it has no psychic power without the foundation of positive self-regard.

Please stay with me. Next time we will continue to explore our basic needs and find ways to bring a sense of wholeness and enchantment into our lives.

*This article–with minor changes throughout–came from my book, THE ENCHANTED SELF, A Positive Therapy. The body of the article can be found on pages 184-l85 and the exercise on page 104.

Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein is the originator of The Enchanted Self. She has been a positive psychologist in private practice and licensed in the states of New Jersey and Massachusetts since 1981. Her book, The Enchanted Self, A Positive Therapy, was published in 1997 by Harwood Academic Publishers and is now in its second printing. She has just published her second book on the concept of enchantment: Recipes for Enchantment, The Secret Ingredient is YOU!

Dr. Holstein speaks regularly on radio programs around the country, and appears on television in New York and New Jersey. Her inspiring audio files can be found on the web at http://www.Ladybuglive.com. She also gives lectures, seminars, and retreats on the concepts of enchantment and is currently in private practice in Long Branch, New Jersey with her husband, Dr. Russell M. Holstein. You may find more about Dr. Holstein and her work at: http://www.enchantedself.com

Is it possible to have too much Emotional Intelligence?

30. August 2006 Kategorie General Spirit, Mind | 0 Kommentare »

The Emotional Intelligence Quick Book
The Emotional Intelligence Quick Book

by Susan Dunn

Someone emailed me recently, “Do you think it’s possible to have
too much emotional intelligence going on? To the point that perhaps logic takes a backseat?”

Good question. The fact is, we need both IQ and EQ. You can’t have “too much” emotional intelligence, but that doesn’t mean at
the expense of logic.

It’s time to use logic, for instance, when figuring out a budget,
or making a timeline for a project. Then there’s a time to use
emotional intelligence - using leadership skills, for instance, to
get those people to make that timeline and project happen.

Emotional intelligence means using all your faculties, including logic and reason, to bring about results that are favorable. It means having the flexibility and creativity to see alternatives.

Say you’re presented with a highly-charged emotional situation, for
instance. You’re furious with your partner and would like to hit him. Your EQ would tell you to manage that emotion, to stop and
think. Your “thinking brain” would then consider the possible
consequences of your act — seriously hurting him, going to jail,
harming the relationship irreparably, feeling shame and guilt
afterwards, and other things that are not in your best interest. At the same time, you could use your empathy to try and see things from their point of view.

There are times when logic does need to take a back seat, for
instance when we need to use our hearts in managing a misbehaving
toddler. Logic and reason aren’t of much use with a two year old.
They also aren’t of much use in figuring out the big questions in
life, like why bad things happen to good people.

Emotional intelligence means managing emotions so you can take action in the best interest of all concerned. This also requires using your thinking brain!

To learn more about emotional intelligence, go to The EQ Coach.

Don’t Believe….Know!

30. August 2006 Kategorie General Spirit, Mind | 0 Kommentare »

by: David Taylor

The spiritual evolution of the this planet and its inhabitants is currently in a rapid state of change, a new era is being born, and we are no longer content to be believers, as sheep in a “flock”. People are waking up to the knowledge that we can be masters of our own destiny, and are looking to the ancient cultures who have survived to show us the way forward.

How can we break free from our definitions, when we are bound by systems, and rules and regulations, and “normal procedures” . What escape routes are there when all we know is all we have been taught. What is there outside the world we know, and how can we find it and finally be free.

Ancient knowledge and practices from Shamanism, Wicca, Vodou, Druidism and many others are being used and adapted to our modern lives to re-connect us to the worlds of spirit. We are re-discovering that everything in our universe has energy, consciousness, vibration and a power of its own, something the ancients have always known.

By lovingly connecting ourselves to this universal energy, we can know that everything within it has its own spirit, and is connected to everything else. Deep personal transformations can occur as we align ourselves to the loving universal consciousness, giving us back the power to create our own personal spirituality, and to KNOW spirit to the very core of our being.

“I don’t believe, I know.” Carl Jung.

“You are not my enemies, you are my brothers and sisters. You did not do anything to me or my people. All that happened a long time ago in the lives of our ancestors. And, at that time I might actually have been on the other side. We are all children of the Great Spirit, we all belong to Mother Earth. Our Planet is in great trouble and if we keep carrying old grudges and do not work together, we will all die.” Chief Seattle.

“There is no one who can take our place. Each of us weaves a strand in the web of creation. There is no one who can weave that strand for us. What we have to contribute is both unique and irreplaceable. What we withhold from life is lost to life. The entire world depends upon individual choices.” Duane Elgin.

The Abraxas Foundation of Lightwork and Spiritual Knowledge was created in 2005 by David Taylor to raise Spiritual awareness through the exploration and use of Ancient and Modern Spiritual practices. www.Abraxas3654.co.uk